Your sadness doesn't say,
"Please fix me,
heal me, or release me".
It doesn't say, "Please get rid of me,
numb
yourself to me, pretend I'm not here".
Sadness does not come to punish you,
or reveal
to you what a 'spiritual failure' you are.
Sadness is
not a sign that you are unevolved
or far
from healing, awakening, enlightenment, peace.
The presence of sadness is not an indication
that
you've done something wrong.
True healing is not the fixing of the broken,
But the rediscovering of the Unbroken.
…we bow to sadness then,
we
recognise how it's already allowed in,
how
there's enough room in us for sadness,
how we are
not 'the sad one',
not
contained within sadness,
but the
room for sadness,
its space,
its home,
its
salvation,
its loving embrace;
its loving embrace;
not as a
goal,
but as our
nature - consciousness itself,
already
free.
Don't heal yourself from sadness; let sadness
heal you.
Let it
show you the way when you have forgotten.
Let it
reveal to you the mysteries of love.
Let it
remind you of your vast heart,
your
refusal to split off from any part of your ancient Self.
Let sadness help you remember that
bigger
Happiness you danced when you were young.
Jeff Foster
Life Without a Center
website
website
I have put Jeff's words
into prose poetry form.
into prose poetry form.
~*~
Also see my poem:
The Rhythm of Sadness
The Rhythm of Sadness
Well said Jeff. Thank you Mystic. I have "trained" myself to speak to emotions. To speak of my feelings straight forwardly. Sadness is a feeling. Many people are afraid of hearing feeling words and expressions. When they hear them they do leap right into fix it mode. Actually it can be tiresome to be expressing my sadness to someone and have them leap immediately into fix it mode. Well you could do this, have you thought of that. Most likely I have. But what I want is to be "heard" in my feelings. That's my reaction to a few of his words anyway. Thank you. Suki
ReplyDeleteYes! yes! Yes! :) I speak to my emotions/feelings too. :) I journal them, asking what is needed, what they want/need, etc. I sit with them in meditation, loving them, accepting them, working *with* them, trying to embrace them rather than resisting them. And I "hear" you :) about people who want to try to "fix" you - or - those wonderfully "spiritual" people who say we "shouldn't" be feeling our feelings because ultimately we are Pure Being, etc. Whatever happened to empathy and compassion!? :) Thanks for your wonderful comment!
Deletethank you, Mystic
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